Lahr was a
trooper in the truest sense of the word.
Like many of his contemporaries, his career began on the stages of
burlesque and vaudeville. During the
Roaring Twenties, he partnered up with Mercedes Delpino, a pretty, dark-haired
dancer. Together, they established an act that included the sexy Delpino as a gyrating
dancer who catches the eye of a bumbling, beat-walking policeman played by
Lahr. Their chemistry and their antics
made them one of vaudeville’s most popular duos. Offstage, Lahr was smitten with his partner
and a romance blossomed. The couple
married on August 23, 1929 and they soon had a son, Herbert.
The new Mrs.
Lahr, however, had never been well. She
suffered from what was probably some form of schizophrenia that caused abrupt
mood swings and sudden black-outs leading to memory loss. She was prone to breaking things and starting
fires. At one point, she even shaved her
head. Lahr was at a loss. He desperately wanted to help his wife, but
had no idea how. When she tried to hurt
the baby, he had no choice, but to admit her to an asylum—most likely in 1930. Lahr spent hundreds of thousands of dollars
in an effort to find a cure for Mercedes, but back in the early thirties little
was known about mental illness. Beyond any
help that was available at the time, she was eventually declared insane.
In 1932, Lahr
met the striking Mildred Schroeder, a Ziegfeld Girl. She thought he was a perfect gentleman and he
thought she was simply wonderful.
Knowing that a normal life with Mercedes was not possible, Lahr promised
Mildred that he would divorce his wife and marry her, but it wasn’t so
easy. Divorce laws in New York were
problematic and the process extremely slow.
Four years later, Mildred got tired of waiting and married another
man. Lahr was crushed, but he refused to
give up. Mildred soon realized the
mistake she’d made and in October, 1937, she divorced her husband who accused
Lahr of being a ‘love thief’.
As filming of
The Wizard of Oz took place, Lahr was
still trying to end his first marriage to Mercedes who remained
institutionalized. He was anxious and
worried that Mildred would run out of patience and leave him once again—this
time permanently. It wasn’t until
February 8, 1940 that Lahr finally received an official annulment and only
after three doctors in White Plains, New York testified that Mercedes had been
incurably insane for the past five years.
Three days later, Lahr and Mildred married. Despite their long union, which produced a
son, John, and a daughter, Jane, Lahr never forgot his first wife. It was reported that when Mercedes died, a
morose Lahr didn’t speak a word to anyone for three days.
Dressed as
The Cowardly Lion, he endured the grueling make-up sessions that forced him to
sip his lunch through a straw because he couldn’t open his mouth wide enough to
eat. He tolerated the elaborate wig and
long, heavy costume made out of actual lion fur, which caused him to overheat
under the studio’s hot lights. But it
wasn’t the hazards of the job that bothered Lahr. Beneath that oversized wig and the awkward
lion’s clothes, a gentleman quietly struggled to rebuild his life with as much
dignity as he could muster.
What a touching story. Novel worthy, really. Thanks, D.!
ReplyDeleteGlad you like it, Mary!
ReplyDeleteI had no idea Bert Lahr had gone through so much! I can't imagine how tough that would be, and yet you would never know it to look at his work. Thank you for sharing this info about a remarkable man.
ReplyDeleteSo glad you enjoyed it and learned something, too. That's always what I aim for!
ReplyDeleteWow, what a story. I hadn't any idea either that he was going through so much during his career. So sad, too. He was such a superb actor and as you noted, a gentleman. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for your kind words, Tonya. Lahr was indeed a superb actor and a very fine gentleman.
DeleteIncredible to think of what was going on behind the scenes while Lahr was giving his all to entertain generations.
ReplyDeleteJust shows that we don't always know what people may be dealing with in their private lives and to Lahr's credit, you would never know judging by his performances.
DeleteHow amazing! I knew nothing about his life and what he had been trhough in the 1930's is pretty impressive. And I thought his costum was the only thing that bothered him during the making of The Wizard of Oz...
ReplyDeleteDon't forget to read my contribution to the blogathon! :)
Greetings!
Le
Thank you! I have been trying to read all of the posts. They are great and so informative. What a good idea!
DeleteWow - great write-up on Bert's life. I knew nothing about it. His lion has always been my favorite of those who trek toward Oz and now will be more so.
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Thank you, Aurora! I was delighted to be part of the Blogathon.
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